每个人都有自己的情绪。
我要快乐,生气,悲伤,都是我自己的决定。
当有人想攻击我的时候,我应该冷静,不要被别人的三言两语影响情绪。
但有时候,别人会把你的沉默当成懦弱,把你逼到忍无可忍的地步,你还应该沉默吗?
这时候说: 退一步,海阔天空,还有效吗?
最近,我一直在拿捏这个度。
我应该要继续容忍还是大声反驳? 要树立威严还是相信爱的力量?
time of my life
Saturday, August 16, 2014
Monday, August 11, 2014
Sunday, July 27, 2014
2014 first post
Yeah, I didn't realized it's almost 2 years that I last posted here. You know, having too convenient other social media apps makes me forget about blogging.
Was really emo since that trip and for the last few days. I don't know how come I became so emotional these days, maybe cause I cared more about myself and wanted to love myself more now? and truly I'm not good in speaking emotions, better in writing it perhaps. But still thanks for your concern, maybe you can't provide any solutions nor compensation but you make me feel warm when I'm cold hearted by all these ;)
Lastly something that I'm most excited to share! That guy in the plane I just can't resist his charms! Hardly to see some mature guy like him nowadays, I really hope we could meet someday! can you arrange a bump-into-each other scene again? I will be more than appreciate to see that, Hahahha!
Was really emo since that trip and for the last few days. I don't know how come I became so emotional these days, maybe cause I cared more about myself and wanted to love myself more now? and truly I'm not good in speaking emotions, better in writing it perhaps. But still thanks for your concern, maybe you can't provide any solutions nor compensation but you make me feel warm when I'm cold hearted by all these ;)
Lastly something that I'm most excited to share! That guy in the plane I just can't resist his charms! Hardly to see some mature guy like him nowadays, I really hope we could meet someday! can you arrange a bump-into-each other scene again? I will be more than appreciate to see that, Hahahha!
Sunday, September 30, 2012
昨天跟表姐谈起感情的话题,
偶然间提到了你。
我说,我也不知道自己是否喜欢你。因为我不懂真正喜欢一个人的感觉是怎样的,怎么才算“喜欢”。如果我是看在你的种种条件下,对你产生感情,那也算吗?
表姐说,这是自然的,一定是对方怎样怎样你才会喜欢,然后慢慢相处后,喜欢的感觉就会增加。那么应该让自己去尝试,给彼此机会!
可是我没有信心。
“如果不喜欢你,怎么会约了你那么多次?怎么会说的那么白要追你?”
啊啊啊,原来是这么回事,我怎么那么迟钝!
现在总算明白了一点点。好哇,我现在充满力量了!
加油!单身女人要为自己的幸福努力!!^^
++++++++++++++++++++
今天跟老弟说起,老弟倒是一针见血。
“你肯定是不喜欢人家。如果你喜欢那个男生,不管你多忙你都会想尽办法赴约的。”
是这样吗?我很乱了 @@
Monday, August 13, 2012
Sunday, August 12, 2012
Wednesday, May 9, 2012
给现在的自己
一个小插曲,让我思绪如黑胶片回溯,三年来的记忆倒带出来。
这三年来参加的活动/办的事,都曾担任其重要/重大职位的。或是老天眷恋,或者别人看到我自己也未曾发觉的天分?总是被选中上任,当然开心,但发现从未能完美其职责,对此一直耿耿于怀。
或许就是性格所致。每每完成了一件事,等到事后被人指责/批评/建议,才恍然大悟。而我又是极讨厌这种被秋后算账的感觉,大概是自己无法坦然面对被人指责的心情。
这时候,就会很后悔为什么当初没有这样这样,那样那样呢?
其实,一直走来,有很多学习的机会,身边有很多值得学习的对象。但总是错过了。
大懵啊!这就是为什么到现在还未能见你真正成长的原因。
请你以后,务必认真看待每一件事!
作决定前,请三思而后行!
不要小看每一件事,因为每一件小事都是酿成你性格的大事!
珍惜每一次学习的机会!
珍惜每个疼爱你、支持你、指责你、批评你、建议你的人!
勇敢面对自己的过错和失误。道歉后,抬起头来,从新开始!
懦弱、胆小、逃避,只会让自己犯下更多错。
不要永远满意于自己的现状!要不断挑自己毛病,才能进步!
不要随便相信/依赖别人。别人或许能帮你分享欢乐,不一定能随时帮你分担责任。
不要随便相信/依赖别人。别人或许能帮你分享欢乐,不一定能随时帮你分担责任。
请时时提醒自己:是时候改变了!
不要再沉睡,因为时间过去就不能重来!
*小小声:可是曾经对不住的某些人,我就是没有办法坦然面对,也不知如何面对啊?
*小小声:可是曾经对不住的某些人,我就是没有办法坦然面对,也不知如何面对啊?
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