每个人都有自己的情绪。
我要快乐，生气，悲伤，都是我自己的决定。

当有人想攻击我的时候，我应该冷静，不要被别人的三言两语影响情绪。
但有时候，别人会把你的沉默当成懦弱，把你逼到忍无可忍的地步，你还应该沉默吗?
这时候说: 退一步，海阔天空，还有效吗?

最近，我一直在拿捏这个度。
我应该要继续容忍还是大声反驳? 要树立威严还是相信爱的力量?

我自认是一个很随和，很喜欢妥协的人。但是在思想上及难办到这点，我也今天才了解这一点。
如果我认为跟谈话者的思想搭不上，那我宁愿不说。与其让我浪费口舌与你相争，不如就让你继续"低估" 我的智慧吧。

今天终于明白:
道不同，不相为谋
话不投机半句多，酒逢知己千杯少。

错非在你，只怪我对知音的要求太高。
若你没有那样的胸襟，那样的见识，莫要与我谈人生。我们谈谈吃饭睡觉，谈谈别人是非得了，那是我最擅长的工作。

2014 first post

Yeah, I didn't realized it's almost 2 years that I last posted here. You know, having too convenient other social media apps makes me forget about blogging.

Was really emo since that trip and for the last few days. I don't know how come I became so emotional these days, maybe cause I cared more about myself and wanted to love myself more now? and truly I'm not good in speaking emotions, better in writing it perhaps. But still thanks for your concern, maybe you can't provide any solutions nor compensation but you make me feel warm when I'm cold hearted by all these ;)


Lastly something that I'm most excited to share! That guy in the plane I just can't resist his charms! Hardly to see some mature guy like him nowadays, I really hope we could meet someday! can you arrange a bump-into-each other scene again? I will be more than appreciate to see that, Hahahha!